Lucka and Hector got married after several years of acquaintance. Although they are both from different cultures, they share the same values, including their approach to parenting. Even before Niko was born, they knew how they would guide and raise him.
Preparation and planning eased Lucka’s and Hector’s transition into parenting roles. They combined their work in such a way that they could both take care of Niko and spend enough time with him.
Evenings and weekends are a time for family rituals. It’s the time when little Niko is enjoying the presence of both parents. An attentive attitude towards Niko taught Lucia and Hector to approach the rituals in a more relaxed way. Their compass is the present moment, not predetermined rules. “When Niko wants to sleep, we do a sleep ritual. When he wants to play, we play…,” explains Lucka
Hector and Lucia take their child as an equal partner. That is why they carefully listen to his moods and needs, which change over time. Their active approach motivates Niko to be independent. This is developed, for example, during a joint meal, when everyone is sitting at the same table. From the sixth month, when children switch to solid food, Niko can use sign language to communicate his needs – whether he is still hungry, wants more or is full.
